Escape the Algorithms.
Master Real World Dating in 90 Days
1-on-1 dating coaching for men in the SF Bay Area
"Dating honestly seems like just another task on the endless pile of stuff to do."
"I don't know where I'm supposed to meet anyone. Everyone seems to be there with someone they already know. I don't know what I'm supposed to do."
"Hate dating apps, don't put myself in many social situations. Honestly tired of the games and fake people. Juice is not worth the squeeze."
Dating shifted online — and it quietly did two things to us.
It replaced real-world social reps with swiping, which feels like effort but is really just performance with no actual connection. And it made the alternative, just going outside and meeting someone, feel harder than ever.
Because the longer you're on the apps, the rustier your real-world instincts get.
It doesn't matter if you're coming out of a long relationship or you've been riding solo for years. The result is the same: dating feels like a job, and you're not sure where to even start off the screen.
That's exactly what I fix.
I help you rebuild your confidence, recalibrate to the real world, and make dating feel like a natural part of living your life, not another task on the list.
Alabama raised & Dartmouth grad. 10 years as a PM in SF. I've spent my career solving hard problems. Then I had to start over in the dating market and apply everything I knew.
It worked. 10 dates in 10 weeks. No apps.
1-on-1. Bay Area. In Person & Remote.
Connection
Meet the Right People
Stop relying upon chance or an app's algorithm. Build the real-world social skills to confidently connect with anyone and turn an introduction into a date.
Build Chemistry
Move past early dates that feel like an interview. Learn practical skills of building tension, reading the room, and developing chemistry with the right person.
Evaluate for the Long Term
Develop the clarity to recognize true compatibility, set boundaries, and build a lasting partnership that adds to your life.
Presentation
Grooming & Style
Make your physical presentation match your internal success. Curate an image that projects confidence & capability without having to say a word.
Photos & Profiles
Build an online profile that stops trying to appeal to everyone and active filters for your ideal match. Develop the mentality to preserve through the slog of online dating.
Home & Hosting
Upgrade your living space to reflect the life you've actually built. Curate a comfortable & stylish environment that makes you look forward to inviting others without hesitation.
1. Consult
We start with a private call to understand your current baseline, your end goals, and whether we are a mutual fit. I will walk you through how I work, what areas we will focus on, and what the 90-day engagement looks like.
2. Strategize
I return with a tailored 12-week plan built around your goals, lifestyle, and timeline. We review the curriculum together, align on priorities, and set up the exact structure for moving forward.
3. Execute
We implement the strategy in the real world. Through regular sessions and targeted feedback, we build your concrete social competence, generate offline momentum, and transition your new skills into a lasting partnership.
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